Definitions

Communication is difficult. Not only do you have to work up the courage to explain yourself to other people, but you basically put it in good faith that they won’t misunderstand what ou are saying. Since we use words to communicate and all words were manufactured by other humans, it can be difficult to get meaning across.

Take religion, for instance. You might discuss the existence of a higher being. Even though two people might say they believe in God, they might have drastically different opinions about who this god is and how they function.

Same goes for love. Some people don’t believe in love. I think most people do, but what does that mean? There are a lot of opinions on what love is. Love is often seen as perfect. When you love someone, you put their needs ahead of your own. You want what’s best for them. But you also have to love yourself. Because if you put others ahead of yourself all the time, that’s seen as unhealthy.

Romantic love is extremely difficult to pin down. Is it about chemistry? Is it pre-ordained? Is there a spark? Do we control who we love?

I don’t know the answer to any of these questions, but I do know that even if we don’t control our emotions, most of us are capable of controlling our actions. In this way, we can show love to others when they need it, and even if it may not be an exclusive love or an approval of a person’s choices, we can love them as a fellow human being, wandering through this world trying to find answers just like everyone else.

What is love to you? Is there a difference between familial love, general love for humanity, and romantic love? Or are they all the same thing, presented in different scenarios?

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Posted on August 5, 2013, in Life and tagged , , , . Bookmark the permalink. 5 Comments.

  1. seems we both had love on the mind today – see my poem “Essence”

  2. I’ve never felt romantic love but the love I have for my friends is the same for my family so i think it’s all the same thing. It’s a feeling of closeness and attachment and stuff. People confuse lust and love and there’s where it gets all confusing!

    • But maybe that’s where the difference between romantic love and familial and friendship love lies: lust, or sexual desire. But then again, that could be a completely separate entity that is associated with love and has nothing to do with love itself. It’s all in labels and definitions anyway, which are created by us and have no deeper meaning.

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